A Tube is Not Inconvenient

Posted: February 4, 2011 by RickThomasNet in Tristen's Stories

Last week I left my keys for the office at home. Therefore, when I left the office I had to go home, get the keys, go back to the office, and lock the door. The handle lock was locked, but the deadbolt was not locked. Since I’m the new guy at the office I did not want the other folks to come in the next day and find the deadbolt not locked, though the door was locked. I felt it would not have been a good testimony.

However, I had planned an evening with the family and this was going to mess that up. Not surprisingly they were forgiving and the kids even wanted to ride back to the office with me to lock the door. This also gave Lucia about 45 minutes to herself, which was not bad either. So that is what we did.

On the way back from the office I told Tristen, because she is now sitting in the front seat, that it was inconvenient to do all of this, but I still think it was best for a testimony sake, glorify God, and to serve my office mates.

She asked, “What does inconvenient mean?”

I thought to myself, “I don’t know. How can I explain that?”

Then it came to me. I shared with her about the time last year when we came back from the lake and one of the kids had to pee. We were on a desolate stretch of road and there were no places to go other than the side of the road. I said that was inconvenient. Then I asked, “Wasn’t that you?” To which she said…here it is…a classic moment from Tristen,

No way dad! I would never do that. I have to sit down when I pee or I will pee all over my leg. It had to be buddy. He’s got a tube and he can point it where he wants it to go.

It was the best vacation ever

Posted: October 30, 2010 by RickThomasNet in Our Family

At the end of two weeks Tristen said she was ready to go home. That was not a negative comment. She was ready. I was ready. I think all of us were ready. We had vacationed to the full. It was time to go home. We had never experienced a full vacation before. We usually go for one week, which takes three days to get in the vacation groove and then there is a day of vacation and then we start thinking about leaving.

This was different.

We were full and satisfied.

Tuesday: Disney Day Three

Posted: September 7, 2010 by RickThomasNet in Vacation '10

Up at 7AM and to bed by 11PM. As I write this post, the kids are sleeping soundly. The grace of God was all over them today. They never stopped from early to late and their attitudes were incredible. I was so thankful at how God worked in their little hearts today. It could have gone bad with all the heat, the foot traffic, the lines, the worn out bodies, and the very long grind of a day at Disney World.

Did they have a blast? I’m not sure they could have been more encouraged. We were one of the first ones at the gates before they opened. I bought Tristen an autograph book so she could get all the princesses autographs throughout the day. She was so grateful.

The Disney crew came out and did their opening song and then the gates were opened. We headed right to the Dumbo ride at the back of the park. There were no lines. The first two hours in the park for us were rides, re-rides, and no lines. It was pretty cool. Most of the folks went right or left when they entered the park and swept either clockwise or counter-clockwise and eventually converged where we were. By the time both groups got to us, we were gone. It was a good day.

Ansa had her first roller coaster ride. All of them liked Splash Mountain and the Big Thunder Mountain Railroad rides. I believe those two rides were their favorites. We went on them several times. They couldn’t stand it (that’s a good thing). As they came off, they were cheering to get back on. It was fun times for them.

The first character we saw were the step-sisters of Cinderella. I had no clue who they were and went to them to get their autographs for Tristen. One of the mean step-sisters was mean to me. I was slightly offended because I did not know she was acting. I thought, “Who the heck are you? I only want an autograph.” I mentioned this to Lucia only to find out who the character was. I didn’t read those stories as a kid.

When we got on the Mad Tea Party, I spun the cup we were in as hard as I could. I nearly threw up. The kids couldn’t get enough. Being fifty-one is a bit different than being 4, 6, or 8. Ansa loved the tea cup. I was done!

We had planeed on returning to Kidani Village for the afternoon and going back later, but we were so energized that no one wanted to go home, especially me. It was just too much fun. I’m sorta not looking that forward to getting back to work. I’d love to be here with my family for a month. This is fun.

Monday: Disney Day Two

Posted: September 7, 2010 by RickThomasNet in Vacation '10

Today was off to Downtown Disney. It was a full day for the kids. We finished it off with some monorail rides. The kids got their first glimpse of the castle. That has been the main point of discussion over the past few months.

Surprisingly, Tristen said, “It’s pink! I thought it was white.” She was disappointed. It was funny.

The cool thing about the kids is that it takes nearly nothing to stimulate their imaginations and bring enjoyment to their lives. They live somewhat simply and can enjoy the most modest things. With that in mind, you can imagine how “off the chain” they are about anything they see or experience.

Whether we’re looking out the window of the Kidani Village at the animals, or swimming in the bathtub, it’s all awesome to them.

They also get their free pic of a Disney movie from the gift shop. As a guest, you can watch any Disney DVD for no extra charge. They watched Pocahontus II tonight. Can life be better? I bought a $15 mug and you can refill it as many times as you want. I think it has been refilled 15 times the first day! Life is good.

The folks at the registration sent us some cake, whip cream stuff in ice cream cones. They wanted to bless us. They knew we were first timers and thought it would be a nice touch. It was!

We went to Lego Land at Downtown Disney. I had a cuban sandwich at Bongos. Haydn ate half of it. I was surprised. He totally loved it. Haydn and Ansa had 1/2 my Cuban coffee. That revved their engines.

We went on a ferry ride. We bought a box of Mr. Potato Head parts. You could fill a box for $20 and it didn’t matter how many parts, as long as you could close the box top. We got mostly “Mickey” type parts.

A friend back home gave the kids some pins to trade. You can go up to any Cast Member and ask them for one of their pins if you’re willing to trade yours. They have been trading pins all day. That has been good for them, in that they are interacting with adults. They have traded many times now.

It rained a little, but no big deal. I hardly think this week could be ruined. The kids (and us) will need a week to recover, but it will be well worth it.

Tomorrow…off to the Magic Kingdom…

Sunday: Disney Day One

Posted: September 6, 2010 by RickThomasNet in Vacation '10

Today was packing and travel day. We packed the van and made our way northeast for the two hour trip to Walt Disney World. The kids maxed out St. Pete Beach and were ready to go. It seemed perfect. They were not “pre-thinking” Disney, while missing out on St. Pete. They fully enjoyed St. Pete up to the last minute and when it was time to head to Disney, they transitioned appropriately. It could not have been better.

They became focused on Disney when we headed to Disney.

The trip was quick. We stopped once at the restroom and kept moving. We did not give the kids any hints about when we were getting close to Disney. We wanted them to figure it out through their own observations. When we hit the exit off I-4 they figured it out.

Tristen said, “Daddy, all things are becoming colorful.” That was an awesome quote.

Ansa said, “We made it; we made it; we made it; we made it…” She was singing it.

When it was time to be at Disney, there were fully stoked about being here.

Tristen’s quote reminded me of what I might say when I get to heaven. I would not want to equate Disney World with heaven, but I do think when I get to heaven there will be obvious, quick, and discernible differences.

We are staying at Kidani Village. Let’s just say it is incredible. Disney is Disney. They do things right. The folks are kind. The facilities are clean. Things are administrated in a common sense way. We are well taken care of. The condo is huge.

The kid’s first Disney experience was getting in the jacuzzi tub with the jets roaring. The kids are small, the tub is huge, and the fun was quite entertaining.

We’re here!! Praise God…

3 Mile Trek

Posted: September 5, 2010 by RickThomasNet in Vacation '10

Today was our last day at the beach according to our vacation plans. It was also noticeable in that Tristen was not asking to go to the beach today. That is quite remarkable! Tristen loves the beach as much as any place in the world. She was born to be in the water. She is just like her mother. However, today she was not asking to go to the beach. I think she is nearly worn out. That, too, is amazing. The hot sun, the non-stop activity, and endless fun has brought her down to a mere mortal girl. She’s tired.

Today we donned on our roller blades and rolled to the Don Ce Sar, the pink hotel on St. Pete Beach. I rolled about 1/2 mile and then walked the rest of the way. Lucia and Tristen went all the way there and back on their roller blades. It was three miles. Haydn rolled part of the way, took the blades off part of the way and rolled back to our house. Ansa got the royal treatment as she sat in the stroller the whole way. She was the only one who really complained about the weather. It was hot.

Tristen was amazing. She went the whole distance on her blades and never complained. It was a fun trip, but probably about as long as we could go under the circumstances. We took pictures of beautiful flowers. We stopped at a picnic shelter and then a convenience store for ice cream and a potty break.

That was the highlight of our day.

We came in and sat under the cool air conditioning for awhile. Then we went to the beach around 5PM. I did not get in the water for the first time this week. Lucia spent a good bit of time in the water, more than I expected. Tristen initially stayed on the shore digging out a village. She eventually wandered into the water and played quite a bit. Haydn went in, though he was still a bit hesitant after the jellyfish incident on Wednesday. Ansa went in and splashed around a lot, but was ready to crash about two hours later. She lay on a beach towel for about a 1/2 hour. She is my only child who listens to her body. When she is tired, she says she is tired and cooperates 100 percent when asked to lay down. She knows she is ready to lay down no matter how much fun she is having and she does lay down. Quite amazing. The other two push themselves past wise limits.

I continued reading “The Cross Centered Life,” the larger volume. I told Lucia that it is more meaningful this time through than ever before. The message of the Cross becomes sweeter as the years pass along. That was a pleasant and welcomed surprise to me.

The kids did some broad jumping (Haydn and Tristen) on the beach. Haydn jumped nearly 9 feet. Amazing. I was more than surprised at how far he could jump. He naturally gets athletics.

We came in to eat and pack. Tomorrow (Sunday) is our day to go to Disney World.

This has been our best vacation ever, no doubt.

“I like this house, mom, because the bedroom is close to the kitchen, the living room is close to the kitchen, and the bathroom is close to the kitchen.” -Haydn (I see a pattern here.)

Down Day: Moving Day

Posted: September 3, 2010 by RickThomasNet in Vacation '10

We paid for a four-day stay, with us leaving on Friday AM. We figured if we didn’t like the accommodations or if the kids had enough or if the weather was stormy or if we wanted to do something else or if we wanted to go to Disney two days earlier and just hang in the hotel, we would not be locked into a longer term lease in St. Pete.

After being here a couple of days, we all wanted to stay longer, so we talked to our owner about extending another two days. We knew our bungalow was reserved beginning today, so we would have to move to another place that she had, if it was available, or move to a different kind of place altogether.

The Lord was extremely gracious to us, not that he had to be, but he was: she had another place two doors down. It was a bit smaller, but for us it was perfect. Small or large matters not. Being together matters most. So we have a smaller place with the living room, bedroom, kitchen, and dinning room all in one big room. It’s pretty cool actually.

We spent from 10 to 12 moving and then hung out watching cartoons for a few hours. This was the first day that we did not do anything as far as a planned activity. Nobody really complained about it, which was a clue that slow was best. I think everyone is tired. We’ve been going at it pretty hard.

(Right now Lucia is in bed and I’m watching nickjr with the kids. They’re sitting together on the couch eating popcorn.)

Lucia took a nap after we got all moved in. Then I took a nap. By that time it was 4PM and we decided to head out to the beach for a 3-hour splash time. That was great. We buried Haydn because you’re supposed to do that when you go to the beach. Ansa wanted to be buried, so we buried her too. Tristen found more sand dollars.

I threw the kids up in the air a bunch, launching them into the ocean. They really liked that. The sad news is that Tristen is getting so big that I can’t lift her anymore. I’m sad about my little girl getting bigger, but life must go on.

Toward the end Lucia saw a jellyfish, so I had the kids get out of the ocean. Haydn still has sting marks all over his wrist from getting stung on Wednesday. He has been super-tentative about getting in the ocean. I don’t blame him. He will go in if I go in. He’ll go in with Lucia. Sometimes he will go by himself, but prefers to be close to someone.

We were going to go roller blading when we got back to our place, but after Lucia took a shower and we all got turned around, I wasn’t really up to it and no one else was terribly disappointed. Food was more important. It was a good and much slower day. I think that served Lucia and the kids much better today.